Neighbour on Upper Floor Dumps Water down onto My Floor When I Cook Outside

I have lived in the bottom floor of an apartment building for nearly 14 years, the neighbours one floor above me, whom I never speak to, have lived there for about 10 years or so.

I use an outdoor kitchen setup to do nearly all of my cooking and have been doing it since pretty much when I moved in. I don't cook inside because the house doesn't have the greatest ventilation.

Only recently has my neighbour started to become passive aggressive and dump water (and sometimes it has a chemical smell which may or may not be detergent) from their balcony to mine when I cook.

The foods I generally cook are Asian stir-fries or steaks with the occasional soup which produces little smell. It was today when I fried some garlic in my pan which triggered something in my neighbour causing them to pour what a believe is 5L of water + whatever is in it down onto my floor, I have plants along the perimeter of my balcony floor and I hope he/she isn't pouring down anything that will harm them.

The issue is that they have not personally complained about the smell of food nor approached me about anything. Also the fact that I do not know which of them is doing the pouring. They are a family of 5, two parents, two kids and a grandfather (I think).

I will be cooking later and am thinking about setting up a video camera from below so there is some video evidence of it happening.

I have not come to confront them yet but I was wondering if any of you have advice on what I should and shouldn't do in this scenario. Thanks guys!

Comments

  • +8

    What does the body corporate rules say about throwing water out the balcony. In our body corporate rules, that is a big NO and if you have evidence of someone doing that, take it to the body corporate and see if they'll sort it out.

  • +6

    Just knock on the door, ask (nicely) if it's an issue, and why

    Personally wouldn't care about dinner smells compared to say cigarette smoke

    • +1

      Agreed, By the sounds of it if i was the people upstairs id be knocking on OPs door wanting a feed.

    • +12

      I'd take the approach to pretend you think that they might not have noticed you were cooking and ask them to be a little more careful.
      This might elicit their complaint, if indeed they have one.
      And if you have any leftovers, ask them if they want to try what you were making…

      • +1

        To spit in the food or not spit, that is the question!

        All kidding aside, approach them with respect.
        You never know, it could be one of their kids who might get a smack on the bum.
        Or they might ritually clean their balcony at a certain time, which might coincide with the time you start cooking.
        If it ends up being pesky parents/g-parents… weigh up the possibility of you cooking inside.
        Maybe the rangehood is faulty? Maybe you could setup some fans?

        Moving is an expensive option.

      • +5

        And if you have any leftovers, ask them if they want to try what you were making…

        Then add some of what they chucked from their balcony. They won't mind.

      • +1

        I love this approach, minus me offering leftovers. Not that I'm stingy but if they already are that aggressive about the smell, I'm guessing they probably wouldn't appreciate the food either. I'll give this a go.

  • +1

    Perhaps they dislike the smell of meat cooking?

    Go knock on their door, as Spackbace suggested. Ask what the deal is, nicely.

  • +2

    What do the Strata By-Laws say?

    Review the new model by-laws and consider whether these may be suitable for your scheme. The model by-laws include options for rules on permitting pets, preventing nuisance smoke and other lifestyle issues.

    All schemes must review their current by-laws by 30 November 2017. If your strata scheme decides that there should be changes, you can choose to adopt some or all of the model by-laws or adapt your current by-laws to better suit your scheme's particular circumstances.
    http://www.fairtrading.nsw.gov.au/ftw/About_us/Legislation/C…

    Reading:
    https://www.domain.com.au/news/balcony-barbecues-in-strata-b…

  • +2

    Bikies

    • +1

      Or vietnamese gangsters

      • +2

        Only if they bring along the Nước Chấm

      • +1

        And sharks with freaking lazers beams

  • +2

    Do you like durian?

  • +3

    Take up cigar smoking on the balcony?

    • +1

      Don't see how that's a bad thing.

      Just close the doors, smoke outside.

  • +9

    Have you considered that the smoke/smell from your cooking is probably going into their apartment and this happens every time you cook outside; which is most days? I disagree with their method of communication but what you're doing would probably annoy me to. Have you thought about fixing the ventilation in your kitchen so you can cook inside and cut down the amount of cooking you do outside?

    Maybe this could be raised through the body corporate to discuss before this escalates and get a ruling; however, you might find that the rest of the block aren't happy with you cooking on the balcony every day either - it is just the people upstairs are the ones reacting.

  • +1

    Does the water damage your property or fall on you? That would be grounds for a complaint to the police.

    Film them doing it a few times, then ask them to stop in writing. If they continue to do it consider getting a AVO.

  • +3

    I won't say that's passive aggressive. It's really aggressive. Have a chat to your neighbour and ask them why. Sometimesthe noise of cooking or the smell of particular food annoys others. Your neighbour should have talked to you first.

    If the chat doesn't result an acceptible outcome you could contact Body Corp or even the Police.

  • +1

    your neighbout upstairs is probably one of those people that think Hot and Spicy KFC is like a nuclear detonation in their mouth.

  • +1

    We used to have a neighbour downstairs from us that cooked food on the BBQ nearly every day. The occasional smell of meat cooking can be nice but when it's every day it does get annoying.

    That said we didn't do anything about it and have now left that place.

    • I had a neighbour below who smoked constantly outside. (He obviously wasn't allowed to smoke inside…) It is so annoying having to close the sliding doors and windows every time he lit up a smoke. It always wafted upwards…

      • My neighbour who cooked also smoked, when they went away their feral teenage daughter would have parties til early in the morning, glad I don't live near them anymore!

  • +1

    The point that it may be that most of the residents don't like the smell of your stir-fries is a very good one. Most people cooking stir-fries are usually so infused with the smell they don't realise how pungent the aroma can be.
    If the upstairs people are Asian, my guess would be its the kids doing the watering; if European then crotchety old Granpa; if 18th gen Aussie then you've been infested with the dreaded Bogan Slime Worm (like the (profanity) Bug, but stays around much longer)

  • The point that it may be that most of the residents don't like the smell of your stir-fries is a very good one. Most people cooking stir-fries are usually so infused with the smell they don't realise how pungent the aroma can be.
    If the upstairs people are Asian, my guess would be its the kids doing the watering; if European then crotchety old Granpa; if 18th gen Aussie then you've been infested with the dreaded Bogan Slime Worm (like the (profanity) Bug, but stays around much longer)

  • You wont know untill you ask

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