Would you go back to a restaurant offering a meal on-the-house after complaining?

Hi Ozbargainers ,
Wanted to get your feedback regarding a dining experience I had over the weekend.

The long story is below, but to cut it sort, I complained about my meal, and the manager offered a friend and I to dine there again (on the house) to redeem themselves.

The question is, despite being free, the meals weren’t nice, and I wouldn’t want to be the table sitting there and staff knowing that we were on the ones that complained. So would you go back there? Will you be worried they’ll spit in your food or sabotage it? Any similar stories that ended up satisfactory?

Edit: before I posted this I was already inclined to not go there again. If I did go..I would have to call them up or email them again and say 'i decided to take up your invitation etc etc…' Would be awkward.

Long story….
This place had a 76% on urban spoon and a friend goes there often as it is his local. He took 5 of us there, each ordering a dish to ourselves. Three of them ordered the same item from the menu (Dish A), two of us ordered the same item from the specials menu (Dish B), and one ordered an item from the main menu (Dish C)
My dish being Dish B was warned it was hot, I can handle very hot, but my gosh, it was far too hot, but not only that, it lacked flavour. To me it tasted like a water broth with chillies in it. I was so hungry that I ate some of my friends DISH A, that was lacking flavour too, and DISH C wasn’t any better.
Each dish was around $30 mark, not a cheap meal, and I am a bit of a critic when it comes to food, so obviously I wasn’t satisfied paying that much for a meal I barely touched.
I didn’t want to make a fuss complain in front of my friend who took us there because it’s his local, but another friend paid the bill at the counter, so I use that opportunity to speak to guy at the counter. My concern was not to get a free meal out of it, but for them to listen to their patrons and perhaps have the desire to hear feedback and pass it on. He basically said DISH B is a hot dish and started showing me the “hot symbol” on the menu, however DISH B was on the specials menu and didn’t have a chilly symbol (but was warned of it). He didn’t care and handed me a pen and card to answer some general feedback q’s by circling 1-5 on the card.
I didn’t sign the card, and left with DISH B in a takeaway container so I could take home and “fix” it.
2 days later I was still upset about the experience and the service I received. So I called the restaurant and spoke to the manager and he knew about our table, that I spoke to someone behind the bar and leaving negative feedback on US (although not actually serving us on the evening). He was saying he was glad i called and asked me what i'd like them to do..eventually after some chitchatting he said he'll like for us to go back for a meal on the house.

Comments

  • +9

    Personally I wouldn't. Plenty of great restaurant out there, also I don't want to be looked at as someone-who-complains-to-get-a-free-meal person.

  • +13

    This is Ozbargain. Free food is free food!

    • +17

      THIS. IS. OZBARGAIN! kicks Richard into pit

    • -1

      Free saliva/mucus/urine/semen/faeces!

    • yea, with unwanted recipe added too…….

  • +5

    Frequently I wouldn't bother with a restaurant repechage if it was a serious quality or service issue; however, in this particular case it genuinely sounds like a bit of a miscommunication that the manager is doing his best to put right…I would give them a go! :)

  • +7

    So your complaint is basically lack of flavour? If so, That's your opinion, the other table probably loved it and thought it was delicious. They're not going to change their recipe for just one person, unless you're some important person.

    • Every person on the table inc my friend who is a regular said it lacked flavour.

      • +1

        Wonder why your regular friend keep going back when it lacked flavour? Must be the waitresses I guess.

  • +1

    I'd go, Free is free, and because you're on OzB, are you trying to save money?

    It's not like you went out of your way and insisted on a free meal, it's an offer to address your objection?

    • Took a bit of talking until he offered it. He firstly asked what I'd like him to do. I said something along the lines that perhaps ur staff should have a bit more respect to take feedback. I also did thank him for listening to my concern..then after he said I'll like to have u back..I have pride in our food and want u to have a better experience.

  • +7

    I would be inclined to try them again; perhaps try other dishes. I am suspect that trying first a dish that you classified as too hot, when you actually like the too hot varieties, may have impacted on your taste buds. Most foods taste bland when you have just had a chili meal, but just my suggestion only. Trying something different first on a clean palate may be just what is needed. Sounds like the manager is trying very hard to tempt you as a customer; I hardly think they would present you with poor quality dishes the next time you visit. Nothing would be worse for them if you gave them negative feedback a second time round.

  • No, I wouldn't go back for your 'free' meal. If for any reason the chef or the owner was insulted by your complaint then you could get an extra (unpleasant) surprise.

  • +8
    • +3

      These guys must have heard of Donoghue v Stevenson case. LOL… $1m to make sure it never happens

  • +7

    I kind of want to say kudos to you for wanting to just give the restaurant some honest feedback about their food, so they could take it into consideration and possibly tweak their dishes (that is, if it's feedback they've heard often or before - the more feedback the better, right?).

    I simply don't return to a place if I didn't enjoy their food, even if the meals were expensive I'll walk away without complaining and just forever hold a grudge against them lol… unless the staff have actually asked "how were your meals?" as we pay, because then I'd feel more comfortable offering my feedback.

    So I dunno what I'd do if I complained and was offered a free meal there again. I'd probably decline because my natural instinct is to avoid a place I've had an unpleasant meal at. I'm not very forgiving when it comes to food lol. Though I can understand why others have said you should give them another chance… free food is free food.

    Maybe ask the manager to have a taste of your dish before you dig in…. just to make sure it's not "specially made for you" ;) lol

    • +1

      Thank u :) if I had a restaurant I'd love feedback so I can improve. Everyone is different. I have chef friends that don't complain and tip quite a bit because they know what's it like and what it means tp them I suppose.

      • Usually, the owner/upper management appreciate constructive feedback and look forward to hearing directly from their customers because ultimately, it's their opinion that matters. This unfortunately may cause trouble (e.g. warnings, tougher rules) for the lower level staff who in turn may hold a grudge against the complainant - scary since they handle the food. Typical busy, understaffed environments only aggravate this condition (I work my (tight) arse off, get paid peanuts and have to deal with this s***!).

  • +1

    not worth it.. i wouldn't go..

  • +2

    Nope, wouldn't go. My dignity is worth more than a free meal. If the food is still going to be terrible the second time, because they can't cook, what's the point of doing a fake smile and saying you appreciate their gesture? What happens if they sabotage the meal too?

  • +2

    If it's service related I would go back.

    If it's shit food related, no way in hell I would go back.

    Had to laugh about the hot dish tho. You were warned ;)

  • No

  • +1

    Well, a small part of me would want to give the restaurant another chance and another opportunity to prove themselves but I don't think I would take the risk so no I wouldn't go back

  • +2

    different people have different taste, taste good for you is not mean taste good for someone else and vice versa. you dont like the food, dont come back, give it to your friend or family members, otherwise they will think you are so cheap and want some free food.

    dont worry, if the food so lack of flavor for everyone else, they will closed down pretty soon otherwise something wrong with your taste

  • wouldn't touch it. free meal could mean a disaster again and you have to pay more than monetary costs next time if you are ill.

  • We were at a chain restaurant, "ribs and rumps" and the waitress told is that the "steak and ribs" was the same size as the normal ribs and normal steak… So pretty much, 2 meals together. We order one of these each to have the ribs while our wives got the steak.

    The waitress was wrong, and it was a small portion of ribs and a small steak. So we only had half the food we needed. We called the manager over and explained the miscommunication. He didn't take too kindly to the comments, although we were being nice. Said things like "what do you want me to do about it".

    In the end, he brought over a large plate of ribs for each of us. This was way way way way way too much food! The problem was, because we complained about being hungry… We HAD to eat it all. The girls didn't want ribs, so we were left alone trying to fit in a large rack of ribs, after just eating a small range of ribs. It took us ages, and in the end we left overfull, and with quite the indigestion the next day!

    So Yea, I'd go a second meal over an instant "replacement" meal :)

  • From the perspective of someone who works in a restaurant… If we offer a free or replacement meal, it is always to try and apologize / compensate and make sure we don't lose that customer. The aim is to try and get them to come back and spend more money, so the freebies we really take special care with. Otherwise why would we waste our time/money? Same with discounts - why bother running a promo if people think we'll treat them worse b/c they're paying less? It doesn't make sense. If we planned to give you another crap experience we'd just give you your money back and say goodbye.
    I would go back and expect them to be trying really hard, especially if your friend said it's not normally that bad. But then again being new to the industry perhaps I have a different viewpoint to seasoned hospitality people.

  • I wouldn't be too concerned on the intentions that the manager might have to bring you back to his restaurant, what I would be weary of is the staff or chef you complained about regarding tasteless food. I had a classmate in the hospitalty industry who was a chef and he said if we customers knew what they sometimes did to our food we would never want to eat out again. Spitting in the food is the least of your worries, aparently. Yuck!!!! would not take the chance.

  • -2

    Hard to say manything specific as you haven't indicated what nationality the restaurant.
    A) Sounds like your idea of taste is wanting more "flavour" than subtlety. Often people are quite happy with subtle flavours, but when an "expert" in their group declares dissatisfaction, it spreads faster than a flu virus.
    B) I'd say the Manager is genuine in trying to make amends.
    C) Send your "garbage guts" 16 year old nephew with the huge appetite as a surrogate.
    That way you've 1) satisfied all us OB's that you've got something for free
    2) Eased the Manager's mind that he's done the right thing in protecting their reputation and
    3) gained valuable kudos from nephew (and won't have to feed him for another few months/years).
    Win-Win all round!

  • I wouldn't, I used to work in a kitchen, seen a few steaks dragged along the floor.

  • Short Answer: Dont go.
    Long Answer: You have no doubt made your point by giving the restaurant your feedback. As a paying customer i guess that's something everyone must do. Discreetly and Politely ofcourse. I'm still at a loss to understand what are you looking to achieve out of this free meal….its unlikely they are going to change the recipe just because you complained? besides how is the free meal going to change that dish for the better?

  • -1

    OP is from Melbourne and agonising over one lousy, overpriced greasy spoon?
    (lots of laughter)

    You need to get out more. Or make it yourself — laksa is easy.

  • Thanks for all your feedback! This has never happened to me before and reminded how a friend of mine experienced similar at Donavans, St Kilda. Though it was the service that was bad and was overcharged with quantities when receiving the bill, the food was excellent tho. They also was offered to go back, but they didn't want to be the table that complained, so they were also unsure what to do.

    I've made my point across to them, and their dishes weren't nice anyway. I forgot to mention that DISH A was undercooked! and DISH C would fail against something you get in a jar at the shops!

    Perhaps believing my european friend saying a particular asian/fusion cuisine is "yum" was a mistake.

    • I don't find it an issue with the 'table that complained'.

      You paid good money for good food and service, if they were charging that much then you should get that in return. If you don't then they don't deserve your money.

      I'd go back to get that meal, but not immediatly, maybe after a few weeks so they can maybe improve their service and food.

      Its almost the same as buying some thing at the shop, and you got home and find out it is missing some items, would you go back and get a refund? "You don't want to be the person who complained and got a refund" lol.

      If it was me though, I would get them to remake the dish. I've had dishes at expensive resturants which turned out over cooked or burnt, told them it didn't taste good, and they went back and made another one which tasted a lot better. Sometimes since they cook them all at the same time, they may miss out on the timings.

  • +1

    Sometimes restaurants are open to suggestions. You can tell them nicely why you thought the food was bad. Who knows, maybe they'd improve their dishes based on your suggestions and they'd become more successful and maybe they'll remember you and give you more free meals. And maybe then it'll be worth eating there again.

    Whether I go again or not would depend on the kind of people they are. If they seemed nice and genuine, I'd give them another shot. Then again, I'm not the type to complain so I wouldn't be offered free meals. I'd just not go there again. But I'd like to be the kind of person who does what I wrote above.

  • At-least the manager accepted your feedback and offered you to come back. I would go back and tell them to serve their best dish of the nigh-course something you like also ) and just pay for the drinks. If still you don't like it then leave a neutral feedback in urban spoon ( For being polite to accept and get you back there for a free meal) However, if they impress you then leave a positive feedback. You really don't have to go back in the future but I would give a chance for them to prove !!
    I do not generally think people will spit/ other rubbish when they server. Can happen in McD or HJ not in a fine diner.
    I was offered a bottle of red for complaining about liquor-land customer service. I haven't picked it up yet and don't think I will ever pick up the wine. My voice was heard so in this case I was not looking for a freebie.

    • At-least the manager accepted your feedback

      If I read correctly, OP basically forced the staff/manager to listen to him. Complaining once wasn't enough, he wanted the staff to listen to him so badly he couldn't sleep and had to call the restaurant to complain again. I think if the manager/staff didnt listen/care again, OP would tie them down with rope onto a chair and give them a full on lecture on OPs flavour standards.

      • You're wrong.The guy behind the bar was arrogant and didn't have any customer service skills at all. Although the manager was maintaining the relatioship ..he was doing his job. I didn't take up the free meal and instead I thanked and voiced out my appreciation to the manager for his time because he actually listened.

  • +1

    if the restaurant is willing to give your meal on the house, as an optimist, i would assume that its not an every meal occurrence that there were bad dishes, otherwise free meals would run them into the ground. give them another go i reckon. It would lift their spirits as a company knowing their service is what brought you back, and in return you may be pleasantly surprised with your next order

  • Definitely not, the cooks would be laughing as they spit in your fod "you asked for it"

    Recently had the same case regarding Nandos telling me the party for 2 platter deal was finished, despite having the sign outside still advertising it.

    End result was the same, with me having to go in and tell them I was the guy who complained to get my free meal compensation.

    No chance, I just go to another Nandos now.

  • Can you have the meal home delivered or as a take away.

  • Ahh boat even bother going back.
    They had 5 chances or plates to serve and all lack luster so that's a no go zone.

  • I had a similar experience. I ordered meatballs from an Indian restaurant. I really wasn't satisfied with them and complained - they lacked both quantity and also quality. I was offered more meatballs, but I didn't accept them. The dish was just sub-par (no sauce, few meatballs) and more meatballs was not going to improve it.

  • If I don't enjoy dining at a place, I don't go back; free or not.

    But I do think people should give feedback if it was poor food or service.

    I've been wanting to buy some blank business sized cards, for times of exceptional or unacceptable service and quality.

    It would say something like "Hi, I ate here tonight and found that the <food>/<service> was poor because of <reason A> and <reason B>. I'm not looking for compensation, but leave this in the hope that you might take this as constructive feedback. Sorry to say, we won't be coming back."

    OR

    "Hi, I ate here tonight and was served by <johnDoe> and <food>/<service> was excellent. We particularly loved the <example A> and <example B>. Thanks for a great night! We'll tell all our friends to come here."

    Tone may vary depending.

  • Go back when the manager is around, place your order and try the food without letting them know you were the complainant. That way you'll be treated like any other customer - no pretentious special treatment, no adulterated food.
    If you think it's better, optionally pay for it, especially if you intend to go back and then see the manager to give him your feedback (or email him if you want to remain anonymous - no free meal in this case, though).
    If you're still dissatisfied, let him know that you gave them a second chance and are still disappointed, I highly doubt he would ask you to pay since he already offered you the free meal.
    Go home with dignity and without fear of having eaten someone's excrement, never to return, the end.

  • Reminds me of the time we ordered burritos at Mexicali Rose. The plates were burning hot, the burritos tasted like boiled chicken in a dry wrap and the prices were higher than any other Mexican restaurant I've been to.

  • I've been offered a free meal from a Mexican place that I rubbished online. Even though I lived on the same block, I never went back to claim it. The food was that bad.

    I complained to Grill'd when they left the chicken off my take away chicken burger and they posted me free burger vouchers. I claimed those.

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