My friend told me a story of during his job hunting days around a year ago.
He and 15 others (10 male, 5 female) were sitting outside going in for a panel based interview for engineering roles for a reputable engineering company. Before going into his interview, the HR manager walks into the room and tells them that they are ONLY looking for women in this role. The interview did its thing and obviously, only 4 out of the 5 females got the positions. To add salt, one of the successful applicants was a friend of my friend's and she didn't even know what the role was about (like ffs).
I understand the importance of gender diversity in the workplace (especially engineering workplaces) but doesn't this seem effed up? I mean, success in an interview should be based on competencies rather than what genitals you have. I hate the idea (with respect to this particular example) that having a phallus, my competencies are hindered. There are faculties in universities primarily associated to "Women in Engineering" where the after tertiary education they're set up for life regardless of competence. It's a lot more challenging and so much more competition for males in this field and it personally just ruffles my feathers.
Does anyone share this? Is this even legal?
"I thought men were meant to be the strong sex"
You're not appealing to established gender stereotypes and ignoring the diversity present in the opposite sex, are you?
That would be ignorant and sexist.
For your information, I'm a self-reflective, some times vulnerable individual with issues relating to confidence. I have heard I'm meant to just be "strong" but as I mature I have come to understand that this is simply an oppressive phrase uttered by those in alignment with the status quo.
TLDR gender shaming from a feminist - and you wonder why people are not responding to you positively…