So long story short, I was an idiot and bought the Amazon Eero pro 6E mesh earlier this year when they were on sale without doing research (seemed good idea at time). despite its rather so so range it has been ok until you actually need to diag any network issues, then the word pro in its name is there purely to mock you as anything beyond basic features requires an additional subscription and you can only admin it from a phone etc (no web interface). warning to others, avoid this garbage if you want more than basic features and even then it is way overpriced for basic features.
So thinking I have to bite the bullet and ditch this garbage and write it off as a bad investment. What is the best value for money vs features at the moment, I need to be able to see traffic stats, system logs, QoS, dyn DNS etc etc. decent performance (without breaking the bank)
I don't know if I am missing something, but I'm still so very contented with my multiple Netgear R7000/R8000 routers running Fresh Tomato Firmware, using them configured both as routers and as bare AP's. Ethernet backhaul to the main router is always best for performance compared to mesh, but I understand that it can be hard to run ethernet around the place in some houses. These routers are usually $50-60 on marketplace second hand.